The Pleasurelit Way has arrived (And my Story behind it)
It's official! My Book The Pleasurelit Way is OUT NOW!
After pouring my heart, soul, stories, and tools into these pages… my book is finally here.
Get the Book here now:
The Pleasurelit Way: Awaken, Deepen, and Widen Your Pleasure Potential is now available in print and ebook on Amazon!
This book is more than just words—it’s a living, breathing embodiment of everything I’ve learned (and unlearned) about pleasure, sex, healing, confidence, and self-love.
It’s a guide, a spark, a mirror, and an invitation.
I wrote this book for you—for the parts of you that are craving:
More connection to your body
More pleasure in your everyday life
More confidence in yourself
More boldness, turn on, fire, and freedom
🎧 Listen to my latest podcast episode where I share my story of this book, what it took to bring it to life, and why this message matters more than ever right now.
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Whether you’re just beginning your journey into sensuality, embodiment, pleasure, and self-love—or you’re already on that path—this book will meet you where you are and take you even deeper.
Enter the Pleasurelit Giveaway
Want to win the ultimate pleasure bundle?
What you can win:
· ❤️🔥 FREE access to ALL my current pleasure-based online courses
· ❤️🔥 FREE 1-year subscription to my PleasurelitPatricia page (OF)
Valued at over $1500 USD 🥵
This is the ultimate giveaway — a fusion of deep pleasure education and real pleasure experiences.
How to enter:
1. Purchase my book 📕 The Pleasurelit Way on launch day 9th-10th July 2025
(Available on Amazon as both ebook and print)
2. Email your proof of purchase to 💌 thepleasurelitway@gmail.com
(Each book purchase = 1 entry. Get both versions or multiple copies for extra entries!)
⏳ Heads up: Book price increases on 11th July 2025
🎉 Winner announced: 12th July 2025
I’m SO excited for you — one of you will receive this next-level pleasure bundle and step into your most Pleasurelit, unapologetic self. 🔥
Giveaway Terms & Disclaimer: This giveaway is not affiliated with or endorsed by Amazon or any other third party. Open worldwide. Must be 18+ to enter. Entries valid with proof of purchase of The Pleasurelit Way on 9–10 July 2025 only. Winner will be selected at random and announced on 12 July 2025 via email and/or social media. No cash alternative. By entering, you consent to be contacted by Pleasurelit Patricia.
Book Reviews
What other have said so far:
“First, I want to say thank you - a huge thank you, to be honest. I recently started working with my somatic therapist on reconnecting with my body, sensuality, and sexuality as an injury I sustained 2.5 years ago had a huge impact and led me down a path of deep healing from my experiences of abuse as a child. But I've been scared and holding back, which has impacted me, my relationship with my partner, and - as you say - so many parts of my life. Your book has brought me back to me. And for that, I simply don't have the words to thank you enough. Your book isn't even published - and yet it's made a difference to one person already. I feel so blessed. Serendipity, indeed. As I write this, I'm sitting here in my sexiest underwear - that I haven't worn for the past three years - and I feel alive, and vibrant, and so excited to explore me more from the pleasurelit perspective.
“I was sitting on the couch editing the other day (sometimes I need to put my broken foot up on a cushion) and my 14yo daughter came and sat next to me. When she does this, she often reads over my shoulder to see what I'm doing. I was working on a section that referred to self-pleasure and masturbation, and my initial instinct was to cover/close my laptop. Now, she is my baby, and I forget she's growing up, but it was a good moment of awareness for me and I caught myself before I acted, then explained to her what your book is about. She was very open to the conversation and we ended up having a great chat. What a beautiful opportunity to normalise pleasure and exploration with a younger person! And a moment for me to catch some of my conditioning and recognise it for what it was, then choose another path. So good!”
“Working with you has been so smooth - l've loved it.
And I think of pleasure in so many aspects of my life now - lots of work to do, but the awareness is helpful.
I also realised that I do hold my breath when I orgasm so l've made a conscious effort not to do that and it has made a difference. I've just started some heavy-duty rehab after an accident I had over 2 years ago and being back in the gym and beginning to feel strong is making me appreciate my body so much more - I even spent a few minutes consciously loving myself in the bathroom mirror the other day. That's never been something I have found easy to do due to past trauma, but doing it The Pleasurelit Way made it so much more accessible than "just look in the mirror and tell yourself you love yourself." That has been so hard for me - but being playful and fun is much easier and natural for me.
So, thank you for all the knowledge and awareness you have brought through your book! And thank you for trusting me with it too. I'm so excited for you!”
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Your Pleasurelit Author
Pleasurelit Patricia is your trusted, multi-award-winning Pleasure Educator and Creator who will guide you on your journey of unapologetic self-love, embodied pleasure, empowered play, and nourishing connections.
With certifications in Sex, Tantra, Fitness, Yoga, Healthcare, Nutrition, Business, Quality Control and Safety, Education, and Conscious Kink & BDSM, Patricia blends deep academic knowledge with lived, embodied wisdom. Her holistic, trauma-informed offerings are grounded in two powerful pillars—expansive education and years of personal and professional experience—which support profound, pleasure-led transformation. As a mother, a DV and abuse survivor, and someone who has healed from trauma and explored love beyond convention, Patricia deeply understands the courage it takes to reclaim your pleasure, confidence, and self-love.
As a passionate pleasure reviewer and pleasure content creator, Patricia has personally explored over 350 pleasure toys, kinky tools, and a wide range of pleasure products and practices. Sharing her real, intimate journey of pleasure exploration is an extension of her mission: to inspire and empower others through safe, informed education and embodied experience.
At the heart of her work is The Pleasurelit Way—a transformative four-path pleasure framework rooted in care, connection, embodiment, and play. Her first book, The Pleasurelit Way, offers personal insights, pleasure practices, and tools to help you reclaim your pleasure and self-love.
Through her vibrant Pleasurelit Community, Podcast, Courses, and Programs, Patricia holds space for people of all identities to explore their pleasure with confidence. Her message is clear: Pleasure is your birthright.
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Your support matters
I’d be so honoured if you’d support this launch by:
💫 Buying the book
💫 Leaving a review on Amazon
💫 Sharing it with a friend or on your socials (tag me—I’d love to celebrate with you!)
Thank you for being here.
For walking this pleasure path with me.
For believing in what’s possible when we turn on and tune in.
Let’s keep lighting the way—together.
🔥 With love and pleasure,
Pleasurelit Patricia
What is The Pleasurelit Way
The Pleasurelit Way: Awaken, deepen, and widen your pleasure potential
Are you ready to embrace your pleasurelit self?
Let me read you a few pages of my book:
The Pleasurelit Way is your revolutionary self-help guide and transformative toolkit to awaken, deepen, and widen your pleasure potential. Regardless of your gender, relationship dynamic, background, or current connection to pleasure, this book will guide you toward deeper self-love, magnetic confidence, and ultimate pleasure—inside and outside the bedroom.
The 4 Pleasurelit Pathways and their 29 Portals to Pleasure will guide you through:
· Pleasurelit Embodied Self-Care
Awaken your pleasure through unapologetic self-love, sensual nutrition, intuitive movement, and embodied self-care rituals.
· Pleasurelit Intentions and Mindfulness
Deepen your pleasure through presence, desire-led intention, and mindful pleasure practices.
· Pleasurelit Connections
Widen your pleasure through meaningful and nourishing relationships—with yourself, others, money, the universe, and life itself.
· Pleasurelit Exploration and Play
Embrace your pleasure through exploring your desires, boundaries, Kink, BDSM, Tantra, and pleasure toys and tools.
With personal stories, guided practices, rituals, journal prompts, and expert tips and insights, this book is your roadmap to becoming pleasure-confident and self-empowered.
Join me for a FREE Pleasurelit Practice from the book:
From people pleasing to pleasure-leading—Patricia reclaimed her worth, healed from trauma, awakened her body, and became the confident, self-loving and pleasure empowered woman known as Pleasurelit Patricia. As the trusted, certified, and multi-award-winning Pleasure Educator and Creator, she has helped countless others unlock their pleasure potential. Now, it’s your turn to be and live pleasurelit—unapologetically.
· Pleasure is your birthright.
· Self-love is your foundation.
· Education empowers you.
· Experience transforms you.
Are you ready to live The Pleasurelit Way?
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