Stop comparing and pleasure yourself instead

Maybe try the car to change things up...

Personal Pleasurelit journal note 5/4/25

This week I went deep into the spiral of comparing myself to others and wanting it all. Now, there isn’t anything wrong with wanting more and having goals - dream big! But when you start comparing yourself to everyone around you, you will give away your unique power and it will take away from your pleasure potential.

Sometimes I ask myself “How do you do it all Patricia?!”

I love creating pleasure content, making pleasure movies, write about pleasure, review pleasure, educate and mentor others on their pleasure journey - while also managing life as a full time single mum.

This week, I wanted to be the best in everything and preferably STAT. Be a pleasure movie star, bestselling author, your trusted pleasure mentor and an amazing mother – everytning and more right now!

I was chasing instead of leaning into what life is already offering me - the opportunity to embrace my most pleasure self with everything that’s already within me and available to me.

So,… I ended up playing and loving myself in my car 🚗❤️‍🔥