Self-pleasure while crying?

Can self-pleasure be a soothing act when we are at our most vulnerable—like, say, mid-meltdown?

Pleasurelit Journal Entry | 8 June 2025

✨ Can self-pleasure coexist with tears? Can it be a healing act—not despite our pain, but because of it?

Every time I sit down to write, I'm reminded how much life fits into just one week. This past one caught me off guard—not in a cute way, but in a raw, soul-wringing one.

Tuesday night delivered some troubling news that shook me. I barely slept, and by Wednesday I was in full emotional collapse. That was followed by a three-day migraine that left me totally drained.

In my effort to self-regulate, I turned to deep breathing, long exhales, self-hugging, and gently whispering affirmations to myself: You are safe. I shared a small moment of that online. I received much kindness in the comments and messages. Thank you for that.

One comment stood out. A follower remarked that my teary, vulnerable moment "looked hot" and stated I should consider filming something like that for my exclusive pleasure content. At first, I was taken aback. Then curious. Then, well,…